I saw this bulletin on friendster and tot it might be quite interesting.
How true it is that would base on diff women. :)
Enjoy~!
How to treat a womenWomen like lots of attention and loving. They want a person to whom they can relate. They want a person they can trust and know they are honest. They want to be able to discuss future plans and problems they might be having.
1. Be compassionate and understanding. Women like men who are compassionate and understanding and someone who always cares. A woman wants to be able to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice guy." A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and to show her that in his actions and thoughtfulness. Flowers, a gift, a card, for no reason, or even just a phone call are an extra touch that tell her she matters.
2. Buy her thoughtful gifts, gifts don't always need to be expensive, but always from the heart. It just shows you care.
3. Places where you can't be visibly affectionate; Look at her and smile lovingly. Hold her hands as often as you can. You can kiss on her forehead or hand that is decent enough and conveys your love.
4. Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
5. Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
6. Remember special events like birthdays, anniversary, Valentines day(NOTE: this day is just another day, don't just give her things just because of this one day of the year; appreciate her and show you how much you care everyday), etc.
7. Remember: Work is important. But so is she.
8. Don't leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel.
9. Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! But sometimes she wants to feel like she's arm candy to you.
10. If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do; explain later, apologize first. Take the initiative to touch her, gently. Women are apt at reading the intentions behind a touch. Most likely, she will give up on the fight and forget about it.
11. Surprise her with romantic dinners out, couples massages at a great spa or a weekend rendezvous. Do all the planning and give her the feeling she's being whisked away. Do not always leave everything up to her to decide.
Treating a woman well is one thing, sacrificing your self-respect and dignity is another. Maintain a sense of self and your own values. If you communicate your feelings about your own self-respect and dignity, it will help you maintain your own image and hers.
Don't exaggerate on compliments and go out of your way to try to be with her all the time, or she will think you are very insensitive. Also don't leave her on her own too often or she may stray.
Remember that all women are different. Never, ever say things like "I bought you flowers, you're supposed to like that, you're a woman!" or "you better like what I bought you, I paid a lot of money for it."
Giving a woman gifts is nice but not compulsory.. wat matters most to a woman is how u treat n treasure her hw attentive u r towards her..
Don't make promises and not keep them. You may end up losing her.
